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Back to School Survival Guide
When kids head back to school, that's the time to get your family organized.

By Laureen Miles Brunelli, About.com

The media with its hype of back to school sales, back to school supplies and back to school clothes--starting while we're all still immersed in summer vacation--might have us believe that "back to school" is code for "buy more stuff."

In fact, back to school time should be about organizing ourselves and families for a successful school year. Getting organized does not guarantee academic success and family harmony, but it helps. A smooth back-to-school transition sets the stage for the rest of the school year, so the systems we put in place during the back to school period are critical.

Back-to-School Shopping

The back-to-school media hype is not all wrong, though. One piece of the back-to-school puzzle is shopping for school supplies while they are readily available and on sale. But that doesn't mean you can't save money on school supplies. And think long-term by purchasing high quality items, like backpacks and lunch boxes, that can be used from year to year, but maybe going a little cheaper on the things that get used up.

School clothes or school uniforms are something else to shop for. Particularly when buying school uniforms, do not wait until the week before school. The earlier you take care of this, the less stressful it will be!

Child Care

Most likely by the time back-to-school rolls around you've got a child care plan in place. You've probably decided what type of child care you need and how much child care you need to fit with your work-at-home schedule. But school has a funny way of messing up the best laid plans.

When your child wants to join after-school clubs and sports, the babysitter you've lined up may not be needed. Or you may need to put one child into after-school care if another has activities, so you don't find yourself driving to the school four times a day. If possible, leave a little flexibility in your child care plans as you head back to school.

Morning Routine

On the first days back to school, start 15 minutes earlier than you think you need. Use these tips to streamline your school morning routine. And if all goes well you can push wake up time a little later once everyone is in a good morning routine.

Organization Systems for Schoolwork

Teachers use organization systems in school. There's a place for book bags, a time to copy homework assignments, a folder to bring home notices, a regular day for spelling tests, etc. But when kids get home they may forget how to organize themselves. Don't let them! Setting the tone during the back-to-school time will help keep them organized all year.

Find out how the classroom works. Often during the back-to-school period teachers send home letters explaining their curriculum and homework policies. If not, ask your child, and help him stay on track by using a similar system at home. But if he isn't clear on the details, ask the teacher at back-to-school night or set up a conference.

Homework

Routine makes unpleasant things, like homework, easier. Right when kids go back to school, set the stage for successful homework by instituting a regular place and time for homework. Younger students often need an adult to help with homework, so if possible, arrange your schedule so you can be nearby during homework time. But a parent should check older kids' homework too to be sure they understood it. So set up a system for homework that works well for your family and stick to it.

Schedules

During the back-to-school month of September, a family's calendar can balloon out of control, as each child signs up for activities. And when that happens so early in the school year, it can be difficult to reign in later. Think carefully about each activity that goes on the calendar. It may be OK to take a break from work to shuttle kids to sports or clubs during a slow period of work, but what happens later if you have a busy season or a new client?

Daytime School Events and Volunteering

And it's not just the kids that need to be monitored for over-scheduling. Parents, particularly those who work from home, can find themselves taking on volunteer jobs or attending daytime school events. For many, being able to do these things are some of the benefits of working at home. However, these too must be balanced with work and home responsibilities.

Fundraising

Going hand in hand with volunteering (but much less fun in my book) is fundraising. Many schools and other kid-oriented organizations rely on fundraising to pay for the programs kids enjoy. And back to school usually means back to fundraising! Fundraising can be tough for work-at-home moms who don't have office buddies to sell to. But fundraisers do not have to be stressful; there are several strategies for handling fundraisers that a work-at-home mom can use.

Snow Days

Seems far off now as you're heading back to school, but snow days (or some other weather emergency) will likely close school at some point. So make a back-up plan for snow days now before you need one.
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